Entry: Tuesday Date's Surprise Wednesday, October 14, 2009



A few days after Tuesday Date and I met, I realised I wasn't his friend on facebook. I casually asked him about it (ok fine, no matter how you ask aout such matters, you'd always seem a bit crazy/possessive. I tried to act casual, at least) He apologised, saying his account got hacked and even he can't log in. He then said he has contacted facebook and they said they'd take 2 weeks to fix it.

I bought that and simply said it's okay. I kinda decided that I wouldn't be bothered even if he didn't add me back. He didn't.

Just, KG decided to be annoying and come by my place. He was going to his friend's place initially. This friend of his lives near me but since he was not home yet, KG decided to stay at my place until he calls. I've realised something: Every time I become cold towards KG, he comes back and tries to get my attention. He even wanted a (friend) hug before leaving. I refused.

Anyway, the point is that while KG was here, he logged into his facebook. After he left, his account was still logged in. I decided to stalk Tuesday Date using his account (since Tuesday Date is his facebook friend).

 

And then I saw something:

 

Tuesday Date is in a relationship with xxxx

and his profile pic was a neoprint of him and his girlfriend.

 

...

KNN.

That new relationship info was put up just this week. But:

1. I stalked his gf too, and found out that she's studying in his home country. 

2. Neoprint booths are only easily found in Asian countries.

3. More photos of them in their home countries in other people's photos which look like some old school gathering.

Based on simple logic, one can easily infer that they got together while Tuesday Date was still in his home country, ie. before we went on Tuesday's date.

With that, I conclude that I got my ass (slightly) touched for nothing. But he's not that much of a bastard because hey, at least he's publicly announcing that he's in a relationship with someone and obviously likes/respects her enough to put their photo up. So him holding my hands and (slightly) touching my ass was probably just a moment of him being silly that night. And he's human enough to not lead me on after that.

Once you date guys who...

- put their statuses as single even after dating for many months (read: KG),

or

- hide their relationship with you even from close friends (read: KG),

or

- love themselves too many times more than they love you (read: KG)

...you lower your standards so much that you can actually respect a guy as long as he doesn't do all that, even if he took mild advantage of you.

 

In other news, I think the f-ing supermarket cheated 50 cents from me for the chocolate I bought.

   2 comments

bs
October 15, 2009   05:37 PM PDT
 
great thing you refused his hug. hmph.
Veng
October 15, 2009   10:13 AM PDT
 
He totally just want attention and using u ask backup -___-" so he got something to fall back to

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